Should you ever have a bad day or feel kindof down, I can only hope you are as lucky as I am and come home to something like this small note on a bag of beans:

My neighbor is from Russia and she is the best.

"Do let the sun go down on anger. I had always scrupulously aired every irritation as soon as possible, to make sure I vented all bad feelings before bedtime. Studies show, however, that the notion of anger catharsis is poppycock. Expressing anger related to the minor, fleeting annoyances just amplifies bad feelings, while not expressing anger allows it to dissipate."